Monday, January 3, 2011

How Not to cares on what ppl said


People love to see your reaction to things, So just show them that you don't care, laugh, and walk away.

Always remember: life is way too short to care what others think. If they are low enough to criticize you, their opinion isn't worth valuing.

If someone makes a rude gesture towards you, ignore them. It makes them look stupid.

Remember that happiness is the key to value. Enjoy your life as much as you can and make the best out of every situation. If you are truly happy, then other people won't be able to bring you down with their judgments. If other people are truly happy, then you won't be able to bring them down with your judgments. Finding happiness is the definition of success in life.

Remember that the whole point of this article is to learn how not to care what people think about you. The only way to do that is not to care what they think about you. That means that you have to stop trying to get their respect.

People want a reaction. If you ignore them, they will realize it's no fun to taunt and make fun of you. Show them you don't care, and they'll get the message.

There is a difference between maintaining your inner-self and making a "reputation" for yourself. Show people who you are, if they don't like it, then don't worry about it. Don't try to change yourself because a few people disapprove - there are over six billion of us and you can't please everyone.

Realize that everyone has good and bad qualities, including you - those who emphasize their good qualities are generally more lovable. You can be too.

Be a leader and stop being a follower today. Be able to stand up to people, be independent, reliable, helpful and kind. Being a leader is having power over yourself.

Don't walk around trying to come up with clever answers to people that try to hurt you.Ignore people who think they know more about you than you do.

Make fun of yourself in a humble and witty way to acknowledge that you're not perfect and you don't care.

Replace your worries about what other people think about you with a preoccupation over your own goals, achievements and progress.

Realize that you are your own person and ultimately the only one in charge of your own actions and feelings. You cannot control other people but you can control how you react and feel about them. Be yourself! life is simply not fun if you are too worried about pleasing/offending other people that you can't even have a personality! Truth is, not everyone is going to like you anyway so why bother trying? Let them get mad over petty stuff if they want to, but don't become a victim of that kind of stupidity and small-mindedness. Just have fun.

You mean more to yourself than you mean to others - it's impossible to please everyone.

The world does not revolve around you - almost everyone you pass in your life has more on their minds than how you look.


Don't be afraid to be yourself. Don't change yourself just because someone wants you to or they are judging you. You are you, you can't be anyone different.

Don't expect others to change themselves just because you want them to or you are judging them. They are themselves, they can't be anyone different.

Don't speak or act submissively - show to others that you are a wild spirit and you roam this good old world with pride and will do what you want whether they like it or not.

Don't disrespect someone's opinion if that person is unkind and doesn't treat you with respect. You will only be as bad as that person if you disrespect them. You don't have to agree with them, but do respect them.